The Things It’s High Time You Forgave Yourself For 

Your Past

  • The wrong life changing decisions you made (like marrying the wrong person
  • The useless degree you got in university 
  • Or not getting a degree at all (because you dropped out to pursue a career in music
  • For the times you didn’t say anything until it was too late 
  • For the times you said the wrong things (and ruined people’s lives) 
  • For the chances you let slip by
  • For all the right people you let down 
  • For never loving your family enough 
  • For running away ever so often 
  • For not planning for your present 
  • For losing your virginity to the wrong person 
  • For being born in the wrong family (believe me, it’s not your fault Bill Gates ain’t your dad) 

 Your Present 

  • For living a lie
  • For being in the wrong relationship (and you know it) 
  • For not reading as much as you ought to 
  • For giving up so easily when you know you shouldn’t 
  • For neglecting your health 
  • For not loving your family enough (we’re still on  this) 
  • For settling for less (because you are so tired of trying and getting let down)
  • For cheating on the love of your life 
  • For spending recklessly  
  • For investing wrongly (MMM)
  • For failing out of Medicine

Your Future 

  • For all the right people you’ll walk out on 
  • For all the chances you’ll throw away (because you’ll still be scared) 
  • For all the wrong things you’ll say
  • For still not loving your family 
  • For not getting help when you needed it until it 
  • For not taking today seriously 

I am tired of blaming and hating myself and I know you are too. We can go on and keep regretting, binging on coke (or cigarettes, alcohol – whatever your preference is)  in one pity party after the other, but that’s just too depressing and of no profit. Some things are hard to let go of, really hard. I have my own demons that keep me up at night and I know you have yours too. But for the sake of a new year and being better than we are now, please let’s just forgive ourselves. We might not forget now, but it’s all a step towards healing. And that is what matters – healing

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