He’s Just Not That Into You 

Recently I had a girlfriend complain to me about how distressed she was. She met this guy and they got along really well and even exchanged contact information. They’d spend every spare minute calling and texting each other, it was evident she was into him as much as he was into her and an intimate relationship was on its way of already forming. 

Then all of a sudden, he stopped calling. He barely replied her chats though he was always online and he when he did, he never showed interest in knowing how her day had been or all that stuff, he no longer initiated conversations and with each passing moment, she began to feel more and more like a pest to him. 

(has this been you lately?)… Read More He’s Just Not That Into You 


So Let’s Talk About 

 I just went MIA and I intended staying longer, but the calls, texts and emails have gotten to my neck! Thanks all of you people for dragging me out of my extended leave. 

The truth is, this thing, this tiny insignificant blog of mine has been more of a self therapy. And I’ve really missed writing. I don’t know where to start from right now, but I just felt I’d highlight a couple of things we could talk about. … Read More So Let’s Talk About 


“So where do you want me to carry you to”? 

“Anywhere”, she replied. 

We’ve become friends already. She had sparkly eyes that if you stared into them, you would want to drop everything and just laugh. She had the face of a child who would grow up and break a lot of hearts – pretty, sensual, confident. … Read More Aisha

As Easy As ABC

I hated the condoms from the very first time. I kept fearing it’d pull off and get lost inside my body. I didn’t understand why it came with so much oil like they wanted us to fry plantain with it, and if they could do something about the latex smell… I’m very sensitive with smells. I used the condoms only twice and reverted back to abstinence. The love of my life got pissed, called me selfish and from that moment, the relationship started dying until we finally went our separate ways. So much for being convinced he loved me. … Read More As Easy As ABC